What do girls want?

Have you ever heard the phrase: If the straight relationship is hard, lesbian relationship must be harder!

I've heard that more times than you think!

Believe or not I've seen so many straight relationship or a lot of post that clearly shows while the woman is wondering what is he thinking and if he is upset the man in only thinking about a fly that just pass by. Well...

Sometimes that is true, but most of the times if the relationship between girls is also friendship we don't hesitate to ask if the other girl is upset or maybe sometimes we are just also thinking about the fly that just passed by.

Sometimes they wanna cuddle and guess what? The other one may want that too and they just do it. We have empathy skills and we know when to ask if the significant other is upset because we can put ourselves in her shoes.So here are a list of advices that you may follow. Not only for lesbians who want to know how to treat your girl but also for guys who don't have a clue.

Give her a good morning and a good night in any way you want : text, call, face to face.

Hug her whenever you have the opportunity, a deep hug, sometimes that's all you need to feel loved.

When she is going out for something, always wish her a good day. There is nothing better than the feeling of your significant other caring about you.

Tell her that she looks pretty, it doesn't matter if she has the makeup all over her face, if she is not wearing any, if she has what it's called "a dead face". Girls are always pretty no matter what.

Acknowledge her intelligence, just because she is pretty sometimes  society judge they are not smart enough. Well that's a bummer! There is something that you must know: There is a theory developed by Gardner called: Theory of multiple intelligences and it basically has 9 types of it. So, just because she is not very good at math, science or any technology, doesn't mean she is not smart at all. Have you seen how many of those skills where she can dance or play an instrument, where she has the best communication with others, where she has the skills to protect nature in ways you will never understand? Guess what? Those are all types of intelligences even though most of the times we only care about the logical-mathematical. Here is additional information about it: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theory_of_multiple_intelligences

Be kind to her, even if you are mean to the whole world, show her that she is special and you can be entirely a bear just for her

Always fulfill her needs, ALWAYS. You do know what I"m talking about. A great variety of girls rather taking care of you than being taken care of, but for the love of god, PLEASE HER SEXUALLY. Dedicate a session just for her, there is nothing better that dedicate to your girl because they just deserve it.

A present will make her feel that you thought about her while doing it, I'm not talking about an expensive present, if she likes it, make her a song,a poem, a tiny chocolate.

If she is sick take care of her with a soup, even if she says she is ok

Give her some space too, just because sometimes we need contact doesn't mean we always need that. If we are in a relationship both sides need to go out with their friends, just remember if you get to meet them each one has their own friends so don't try to steal them away from her.

Respect her, why on earth would you call her bitch??. Ok let me start over, why on earth would you call a woman bitch or any of those nasty words created exclusively for woman. Would you let anyone treat your mom like that? Please just don't. Even if you are fighting

Use the time that you have together wisely, turn off your phone if your friends are bugging, close facebook, spend your time with her appropriately. Trust me, when you are no longer with her you will remember those special moments

Be honest to her, if you are not interest in a relation just let her know.

Apology is hard but sometimes you need to break your pride and apologize. But apologies are just words, make something meaningful to earn that apology.

Even the best relationships fight, so a fight once in a while and talk about it won't hurt.

Always make her fall in love with you, just because she is with you doesn't mean that automatically she is yours.

If you love her, tell her but if you don't love her, there is noo need to break her heart and fill an illusion.

So I hope this list helps you out a little bit to improve the situation in your relationship :)